“Noticing you’ve lost your balance is part of finding it again. Recognizing (and normalizing) imbalance is part of rebalancing.” – Lea Seigen Shinraku
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Rebalancing
when she noticed her tilt an unequal stance leaning toward tumble
she was lucky enough to remember and send herself love to reorient, instead of judgement
when the rainstorm arrived she welcomed it without resistance befriending her tipping vessel
rebalancing was just part of living she could find her way drenched, as well as, dry
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During this one day of balanced light, I feel a lack of evenness. I’m ok with this. Acceptance has befriended me. I used to believe in a balanced lifestyle. I pushed and pulled my daily life to create this ideal. Now I am no longer focused on this achievement. Instead, I am chasing aliveness like a kite must feel the wind. I wish for floating and exhilaration to be part of my journey but I don’t expect it always. I am no longer keeping score of ups and downs and the need for them to equal out weekly. I am taking it as it comes with the hopeful intention of keeping my noticing alive. My noticing of a leaf color like a work of art. My noticing the clouds visiting the sky. My noticing of the tender light of dusk turning even the harsh landscapes golden. Tomorrow will hold a little more darkness yet some nights there will be stars.
This poem is dedicated to my friend, Valerie. Her laugh is steadfast and generous. It always makes my heart smile. Whose laugh lights up your day? I hope you will let them know.
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And the rhythm continues, yellow round, orange round, red tiny parts of bright aliveness making up the whole. Are the boundaries holding us together or separating us by hue?
Each is playing a part in the view. One beside the other, next two, in front of, beside. Are we leaning unequally or holding each other up?
How far would we need to back up before seeing the whole picture? Remember up close never looks the same as from across the room.
Squint your eyes a little. Now look again.
Notice how the colors grow toward midnight as it meets in the center. Could this be a reminder to see darkness as a place to rest maybe even a place of beauty instead of fighting our way to where we think we belong?
You are invited to dVerse Poets’ Pub to write something beautiful in response to this artwork by Alma Thomas, The Eclipse (1970). Join in the fun HERE. Thank you, Melissa, for getting me writing today. It felt like releasing a big sigh and the air returned to fill my lungs without effort.
Somewhere near the produce between the oranges and tumbling peppers a song, Ed Sheeran is singing and the tears arrive, as I listen. (I don't usually cry in public but the emotion is undeniable.)
I am still as a river rock, while the shoppers flow around, struck by hearing the words I couldn't hear before. I let their message in feeling what you were trying to say. What I was unable to receive before.
I don't care that I am crying next to the bananas.
Sometimes
the light turns red before we have left the intersection
leaving our tail end vulnerable
sometimes
our brakes don’t work, spinning on black ice with
blurred windows of reaction
sometimes
we must go slowly, inching through the fog in faith
blinded by dense thoughts
sometimes
breakdowns leave us on the rainy roadside
unpacking resourcefulness
sometimes
forgiveness shows up like an invitation
an off-ramp never seen before
sometimes
we just need to stay on the road
grip and steer
This was written in 2019 and still resonates with me today. This driving metaphor definitely places me in a car-centered culture. Each of us is navigating our way through the day. Be kind and assume the best intentions of others.
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I took this photo in Lisbon, Spain. Such a fun curve in the street.
She led me to the library, fed stories to my ears taught me how to keep the family blood circulating to pull my shoulders back, stand proud
she showed me laughter around the table camping in cold rain, beauty beyond lipstick the effective use of stubborn determination
she made a million meals without consideration flowered apron ready dinners with a smile Did she even enjoy cooking? I don't remember anyone asking her.
She washed clothes, replacing them in drawers a revolving door of dirty to clean just another behind the scenes devotion.
How much did we notice the way she kept the boat afloat watching for leaks while we slept.